After the list of change to be committed get refreshed, every item get checked by default, even those I just unchecked. Is it possible to not check the item if it was already in in the list and unchecked, or just mark them all as uncheck by default instead of being checked.

The issue is when I have item that I don't want to commit right now (unstable, unfinished view, etc), I have to uncheck them EVERY time the list is refreshed, which is, every often since the list refresh each time you click on a new object in SSMS. If I forget to uncheck them or just didn't see they were re-checked, then those items are added in the source control even.